Catholicism and dating
Right and not having much success, this article may help.
The result is a seemingly endless cycle of resentment and mutual punishment.
In Christian women this can manifest in self-righteousness, or a kind of assumed moral superiority over men—often unconscious on their part. I understand that in today's world it can be imprudent and even downright dangerous for a woman to be too kind too soon to a man she doesn't know well, and even then there still is chance of betrayal. O'Leary said that traditionally it has always been up to the woman to control how far things went and how fast, and, if she liked him, still keep the man captivated.
Men complain that they often feel around women that they cannot win, or say or do anything right. Perhaps women today may have good reasons for these attitudes, but they are very wounding to a man, especially to an interested man who is serious, sincere, and sensitive. The Sexual Revolution has ruined it for everyone as far as trust goes, but sarcasm and cynicism towards men have become epidemic in our society, and it has become so ingrained, so second-nature, that most women are not even conscious that they're being that way—but the men are. I said that in the confusion of the day that that was perhaps one more thing that was lost, or at least severely damaged.
No wonder so many women are so unhappy." I told her that one of the rarest qualities to find in a young woman today—at least towards eligible men—was kindness.
So many men are simply starving for kindness from a woman but so often find sarcasm and cynicism instead.