Dating for successful woman
One dating expert said “If you are a black woman on and you’re not going to initiate contact then you are not going to date.
That’s just the reality.” To get any response at all, black women have to reach out roughly 1.5 times the amount of any other group — and they are still the group that’s the least responded to.
Don’t be scared of pauses and help mix up the conversation by asking your date questions.
And the statistics say that most of those white men are looking to date someone who “share their racial background.” That means that, for the most part, black women’s profiles are passed by.
On your date, make sure you don’t do all the talking.
If this date goes well, there will be lots more opportunities to share your stories in the future.
In the early stages of dating, you want her to be spending time with you because she likes you, rather than because she thinks she owes you something. If you don’t contact her within a couple of days, you’ll seem like you couldn’t be bothered, or didn’t enjoy the date.
If you don’t want a second date, don’t say you’ll call her. The sooner you tell her what a great time you had, the better.